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Sorry for rambling I  just wanted to share that with you  By using this website, you consent to our use of these cookies. "Why people in this world hate what is not them. As I tell many clients, you have to think of yourself. hi deborah .. well done for expressing this outwardly , on here . Depending on chosen therapeutic leanings, others could well talk this through with clients in carefully considered disclosure. It can happen to anyone of us. In this way, I am able to work with my client only on things that s/he has brought out, not allowing anything of mine to influence either them or myself. are other people who suffer too, hoping it will help  However, even though they had so little, he said that they were happy, and happy to share both shelter and food with him and would accept no payment. All make up part of our ability to walk in those shoes without taking the person at face value and making judgements and assumptions. And so I decided that Walk A Mile In My Shoes was very fitting. Lots of love Debs, I'm glad you're no longer ashame but can write about it. We'd walk a thousand just for you Only you know the full you. I would help anyone who needed it not to let them beat me, it doesnt work everyday but  I love your positivy as that on its own is a healing process...You'd get well soonest Debs....I've whisper a prayer for you....Thanks for sharing with us. By focusing on how we perceive someone else instead of attempting to put ourselves into their shoes and take that walk, we may come to a clearer, more accurate idea of how they feel about their lot in life, the things they have to cope with. To be called a monster to your face Now you know why I've cried HM replied on Mon, 07/10/2017 - 19:14 Permalink, Denise replied on Mon, 07/10/2017 - 19:22 Permalink. I would have to allow myself to cue in to what all of my senses would tell me if I was imagining walking in those shoes. Thank you for your kind comments my friend It’s rather like driving a car – once you have learnt to do this and are a competent driver, you forget about the crunching of gears, the slow progress with other drivers tailing you and longing for a place to pass and the embarrassment such things cause. I don t much like to speak of it candidly To fear the school where you've been years Surely a skill that would serve mankind well in these days of so many rushing to judge others harshly. It is felt to date back to a poem entitled ‘Walk a Mile in His Moccasins ’, written by Mary T Lathrap in 1895. Will you walk a mile in my shoes  Thank you for your thoughtful understanding comments  Why they hate themselves most of all. On a bad day your tired of fighting They have their point to make, their particular spin to put on. Never judge a book by its cover!! What of the smells, the sights, the sounds that I might prefer to close my eyes to? Unluckily, it happens to you. Whether she was inspired by a direct Native American contact or not I have yet to find. To beg and cry when you pray Those who had experienced similar in their past – including bullying, relationship breakdown, lack of promotion at work, showed less compassion for those who had met with similar problems. Location. South was also producer and arranger of the track, and of its B-side, "Shelter". to the person suffering  but on the inside,turmoil rages within Aww I bet you were terrified Leah  (Hugs) Cancer is so scary  so could not be treated With time, the intensity of feelings, the angst, pain and anger that may have been around are forgotten. you know i can relate to this as i too have mental health problems .....there are times in my life where i haev had some very bad anxiety . An example of a selective quoting of words maybe? PINNED! Your best friend doesn't like you anymore Will you walk a mile in my shoes before you judge this outer skin I`d say on the outside I look normal but on the inside,turmoil rages within I don t much like to speak of it candidly I hide behind, an imaginary,crumbling brick wall nervousness, anxiety, panic attacks ,I live with and agoraphobia, so debilitating tops them all the symptoms of anxiety and panic attacks This is where the differences between talking things through with a friend and therapy really show themselves. Whichever, we have to be aware and have boundaries in place in support of the therapeutic relationship and the maintenance of this. Use all of my senses to soak in and feel the imagined clip clopping of the heels along a smooth path against the struggle to maintain a sole beneath the feet along a rugged path. Thank you for sharing your story Thank you for your kind comments  I just have problems,with my mental health How would I stop myself from considering their lifestyle to be over the top, maybe greedy, having far too many expensive ‘things’? 98027. everyday,I fight these feelings of fear The reasons given for this happening were that with time, we tend to forget just how difficult it was to cope with a situation. I am sorry your doctors have not got answers for you  Take care!!! “You can’t understand someone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.” The person who first uttered this American saying is lost to history. I work with individuals and couples for counselling. on a good one, you embrace it,i`d say, I would like to think I am kindhearted I can relate to this Deb. And your soul so very true, Hi Larry Thank you for your very encouraging  A therapist does not venture down this road. Thank you for your kind comments  myself away from social situations also,I was afraid that i would have  For me, a whole different matter as even further removed from my life experiences. Keep writing. We find it hard to switch off our self and our opinion. Guess people are very quick to judge without knowing the full story as you explain in another fantastic blog! Drowning nightly in a flood of tears I`d say on the outside I look normal Home was my comfort zone If only i knew where home was then maybe I wouldn't have went through the things i went through Or maybe i wouldn't be as mean as YOU Say i am But i don't blame you for not wanting to walk a mile in my shoes Because what I've been through I wish on no one, not even you So never mind don't walk a mile in my shoes well sometimes i wrote this poem to show people that there Would I be aware of the situation as a whole? For being old. A study by researchers, published in ‘The Journal of Personality and Social Psychology’ measured the compassion show towards people who had had similar problems, similar difficulties, through a series of experiments. it makes me happy,to show how much I care !......ALL STARS!! Maybe, just maybe, this is a better approach to take rather than attempting to imagine ourselves in a situation that is completely alien to us or one we have experienced and feel that we coped with well. Hi Charlotte Yes there are Alot of people who have mental  To be pushed and shoved onto the floor With the man that limps, or stumbled beneath the same load. ’ the angst pain. These days of so many rushing to judge without knowing the full story as explain! On here a matter of being honest with yourself, being realistic and being kind yourself! 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